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Wednesday, January 11, 2006

DAMMIT = 4 more hours to go

~ As much as i hate to say this, the truth is men are wimps when it comes to speaking up about the reality of their relationships ... recently two of my friends had to taste the bittery of relationship-flops and it happens so that both are victims of the same typical "oh-please-believe-me" bullshit given by their boyfriends .. amongst the pile of overly common craps often -if not always- used by boys to call it quit involve parental and religious issues ... i mean COME ON DUDE! who are u kiddin' mate?!? and i have to say it's amazing what kinds of crap we can pull off to say goodbye to a relationship .. take this as an example .. "i'm sorry but i don't think it's gonna work out between us coz we both share different faith in God .. i mean i don't go to church on sundays" .. see wat i'm talking about here? and how lame is this bull? so then why the heck did u even think about putting urself n ur partner into this whole mess right from the beginning, morons? *chill out man .. dun get all upset dude* .. maybe we boys should try to rehearse the line before actually giving it all out .. ask a friend perhaps .. sighs .. personally i think watever reasons u plan to say, please make it up so tat it doesn't sound way too stupid to our ears, let alone ur partner herself ... at least give her the respect tat she deserves by letting her know the situation whether it be u falling in love with anyother gal, u just need a break, or watever .. just give her the truth .. and maybe u both can try to fix the problems together or even give it another shot .. as naive as i can be, i say she still deserves to get the truth from you .. i know it seems impossible to serve the reality .. given the circumstance that u might just earn urself a hard slap on ur face .. wakakakakaa .. *trust me it hurts so darn bad .. LOL* .. but at least u did tell the truth and it really proves alot about urself and being responsible as a man .. hihihi .. nonetheless either way the vic is still no doubt ur partner .. eventually it's only time before she will discover it for herself and hate u as much at the end of it all .. sighs .. it ain't easy but i think she will feel somewhat relieved, finding out the truth from you ... ^^ .. but tat's no guarantee .. she might even stab u rite through ur heart on the spot .. wakakakakaa .. in this case, u might wanna use those hard-to-believe lies instead .. wakakakakaka .. bottom line: forget about sparing ur partner's feelings by any means in the breakup coz the damage has already been done .. after all, we ain't no saints .. so quit trying to be one .. me out now ~ cheers

served by inoedoshi at 1:53 AM

10 Comments:

  • I don't agree!! NONE of that you just complained abt. I think faith can be an issue for both parties. Be it the man or be it the woman. I don't think it's his fault that he wants to break up with her for reason of faith! Heck I was in a Catholic school and my friends had it hard finding a partner coz of different faiths. If they could get together in the beginning it could already be a miracle. But still, don't blame anyone...at least he did give some valid reason.... :D Anyway, that's how I feel. Peace! Don't start a blog-war! hahahaha....

    By Blogger Pooch, at January 11, 2006 8:43 PM  

  • ~ I want a war!! no doubt tat believing in different faiths has anything to do with breaking up .. but wouldnt it be lame to end a 2-year long relationship with a person for this very reason? i mean, u know tat if u are going to date this person of diffent -sometimes opposite- faith, then u should already be aware of the consequences and risks tat come with it .. and wat's there to hide if u are dumping ur partner and u are already going out with this other person in 10 days after the breakup? then the words spill and ur partner will eventually finds out the real truth eniwei .. in the end, it's a bunch of crap .. and i must say it's been overly used ... just way too much .. HAH! wat say u mate? wakakakakkakaka .. peace peace peace .. since i have nothing better to do in the office lately .. this is wat u get .. LOL ~ cheers

    By Blogger inoedoshi, at January 11, 2006 10:27 PM  

  • eh.. why ur blog looks so dark on my comp? it's hard to read leh~

    By Blogger bubble, at January 12, 2006 5:32 AM  

  • ~ Wakakakakkaa .. sori2 jeng .. lagi ngutak ngatik aja .. biasa isenk .. hohoho .. ini jg belom beres .. ^^ .. so pardon me .. btw watcha think? n wat's up wif the infotainment dude? ~ cheers

    By Blogger inoedoshi, at January 12, 2006 5:58 AM  

  • ~ Hohoho .. i'm under fire here .. well, i agree that sharing common values and faiths certainly plays a very important factor in building a successful relationship .. and i honestly respect ur point .. hihihi .. perhaps wat i am trying to say here is tat it's been used as a runaway excuse, overlying the sour reason under it all .. tat's it .. hehehee .. eniwei let's all agree on things we can agree on ... hahahahaa ... OMG! Congratulations Jess! finally u are off the hook ... tat must have felt good, handing in tat letter .. hihihi .. i guess all the best for u and hope u'll find a MUCH better job elsewhere .. ^^ .. which i'm very sure u will .. btw will miss u too! so be sure to keep in touch once in a while .. tekker now ~ cheers

    By Blogger inoedoshi, at January 12, 2006 11:15 PM  

  • ~ Long time no see, no hear, no smell, no many many many things lar ... wakakaakaa .. well, i have one .. are u lonely? LOL .. just kiddin' gal .. we should catch up with each other lah sometime in the future .. wakakakaka .. dunno when can tat actually happen .. sighs .. but no worries dude .. we still have all the time in the world .. ;p .. just be happy a'ite .. missing u guys alot lehh .. sob sob .. eniwei let's **ching**ching** together then ... kekekeke .. lots of hugs mate ~ cheers

    By Blogger inoedoshi, at January 13, 2006 2:12 AM  

  • relationship - different faith eh?
    ehmmmmmmmm... i think different faith doesn't stop somebody to love others sih.. even for his/her whole life. TOLERANCE is all you need. i see lots of married couples even tough they have different religious faith and their marriages are great all the way till they got grandchildren.

    at the same i must admit the relationship would be at its best when both have the same religious faith! like Jessica has said... they would share same life values which I think would make their life more simplier in solving things up.

    yah both options has its own tickles nya lha ya... afterall i got to say it depends on the doer : )

    well ttg infotainment... masi serem ngak ada yang bisa update terus nih... loe bersedia? hehehe

    By Blogger bubble, at January 15, 2006 4:12 PM  

  • ~ Wakakakakkakaka .. point taken dude ... let me first jot it down somewhere .. LOL .. DANG!@%!$@%! serem eh serem man .. ntar gw kena getahnya lagi .. kekekeke .. so no shenks deh .. hihihi .. btw u've been busy? havent seen u for a while .. well hope things are smooth over there in seattle ^^ .. woop woop ~ cheers

    By Blogger inoedoshi, at January 16, 2006 1:42 AM  

  • kena getahnya paan?
    ehmm dugwh gw not busy sih.. but then i got sick nih.. cold + fever + flu has forced me to nap under the blanket 50% of my days :D

    By Blogger bubble, at January 16, 2006 2:54 AM  

  • ~ Yah getah nge update2 gosip .. wakakakaka .. eniwei hope u feel better soon .. obat mujarap = int'l call 2 ucup .. LOL ... tekker now dude n get well soon dech ~ cheers

    By Blogger inoedoshi, at January 17, 2006 7:50 AM  

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